transformative coach & mediator
You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the entire ocean in a drop.
Everyone faces smaller or larger obstacles in their lives from time to time. In many cases, we naturally draw on our inner wisdom and innate resilience to deal with setbacks, blockages, pain or grief. Sometimes, however, we fail to do so....
At such times it can be useful to seek help from someone who listens to you and is there for you. As a coach I walk along with you on your life's path for some time. Like fellow travellers, we explore and have inspiring conversations about life. We don't dig into the past but we work with what is alive in the moment and we look to the future. During our journey I draw your attention to things that are worth seeing. I invite you to look with fresh eyes and an open mind in the direction I am pointing, so you can see for yourself how you can un-cover your true nature once again and live from your inner wisdom, creativity, connection and natural life force.
I consider it a privilege to be able to contribute to the well-being of others as a fellow companion. I do this with great care, from my inner wisdom and creativity, in connectedness and with deep love. We are essentially no different and that is one of the things I'd like to share with you.
How do I work?
In the field of psychological counseling, it is often assumed that people are permanently damaged by what they have been through and that you have to work hard to achieve happiness, health and well-being. Personal development involves hard work and perseverance. You have to relive your story, learn techniques, control thoughts, change behaviour, meditate and so on. The bigger the problem, the longer the journey.
Those who set out with me will quickly discover that I see things differently. Thanks to the insights of Sydney Banks, I know that, by nature, we feel good in ourselves, that it is our nature to live from connection and love and that our basic mindset is one of inner peace. On top of that, we are creative thinkers. We are capable of great things and create our reality from moment to moment. That is our superpower. That is what sets us apart from other living beings. The flip side of the coin is that we can "think ourselves away" from our authentic life force. The more we get caught up in our thoughts the further we drift away from who we really are. However, one thing is certain: no matter what happens, you are not damaged. Nothing is broken and nothing needs to be fixed. Our innate creativity, inner peace and well-being are always present, hidden beneath our thoughts. Behind the clouds, the sun is shining. Always.
This understanding has transformed my life. As simple as this may seem at first glance, there are no words to capture its enormous scope in a few lines. It is my mission to let you experience for yourself how this insight can change your life permanently.
We have the most wonderful job in the world. We find people in various stages of sleep. And then we get to tap them on the shoulder and be with them as they wake up to the full magnificence of life.
What can I help you with?
The most direct route to having love and wisdom in your life is to have an insight into your essential nature as a human being.
DICKEN BETTINGER & NATASHA SWERDLOFF
Whatever is troubling you, a deep insight can transform your entire life. Its effects become visible in all aspects of your life. Below is a list of things other clients got stuck in and which each of them, from inner resilience, found a way out of in their own unique way. I want to inspire and encourage you with this. We are all uniquely wise. The hardest step is the first one. The rest comes naturally!